Good for you. Wouldn't that qualify as a 180 since you weren't getting the results you wanted from continuing to wash and cook for him? I agree that going out of town is a good idea. Have a great time!

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08