I think you hit the nail on the head and that he realy needs to think about it.
Maybe not for this R but definitely for his next let it be his current W or someone else. I know for a fact I do not want to make the same mistakes that I have made in the past and I am sure there are still some that I have not uncovered as well. I actually wish my STBXW would tell me what I did wrong in a little more detail instead of just saying I changed. That way I could evaluate my own mistakes vrs what she percieves as mistakes. Guese that i what C is for.
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."