HB,
I can agree to theoden.
Recently due to the move, I have been sucked into working on moving related stuff all the time and have not even called any friends yet to reconnect. H seems a bit surprised to find out. (Duh, he's at work, I am at home. How can i go out with the kids running around? plus a million things to do). But I am learning that I need to get out and NOT rely on him for all my social activities. My goal now is to call up old friends, regardless of how long we have lost touch, and make new friends. While H goes through his problem.

GAL. Let him take the kids sometimes (which is great you are doing that) You can miss a game of baseball to "go have fun". Meanwhile, while you two are together, make sure you make a nice picture of you interacting with the kids for him to see.

For myself, I somehow "forgot" to GAL for these few weeks and I think it is not helping. So my plan now is to show my FUN side, and independent side. Not the weepy, clingy "ourcrisis".

You are a wonderful person.


M 38, H 38, two sons
Met 20 years ago
Married 13 years
Bomb: Oct, 2006
DB: Started in Dec, 2006
H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007
H back home and piecing?