yeh she bitched about it again today. she had the life what the hell she is or was thinking is beyond me. she had a free pass through life i have done very well and was willing to share all my hard work with her. now she is working more then she is not. i stopped helping her financially i refused to enable her on this decision. i did call today just to say hello and invite her to stop by tommorrow to help celebrate my moms b-day. she was in a bad mood at first but seemed to warm to me. she is going to try and stop. we also talked again about getting together and going out on a date she needs to find the time.