HB,

Listen to Lin.

Don't drop GAL.

Breathe.

I'm going to offer some more advice....I think you are a beautiful, faithful, wonderful goddess, so take it as coming from a big fan.

Think through, in the next few weeks, "What interesting things do I want to do that haven't given time to?"

Strange prescription...but listen.

This seems like the time to go gangbusters on piecing and re-building, but if you lead this too aggresively -- and I KNOW that's your tendency -- he'll feel chased and p*ssy-whipped. He'll feel like he's drowning in your agenda. Sound familiar?

Try being a bit more demure. Be a little mysterious and focused in your delightful life. Lure him in, don't pull him in. Let him feel like he's after you -- let him be the conquering, pursuing hero.

Soften the edges a little bit.

--Theoden

Last edited by theoden; 07/03/07 10:50 PM.