I swear you must be an expert at Neuro-Linguisic-Programming. It's a way of burying words in a sentence in such a way as to persuade the reader/listener to do exactly what you want. ;-)
Husband,
I think these delightful ladies can offer you great wisdom. I suggest to track down AmyC on the boards. She went through a MLC and can tell you an interesting story or two. She's been on both sides of DB-ing.
Bt the way, sharing your marriage problems with a member of the opposite sex sends two messages: I'm vulnerable, I'm available.
Yeah, I'm kind of mean. I'm working on getting meaner. See...my problem is I'm such a nice, sweet guy, that my wife lost all respect for me. I would really like to get that black suit in Spiderman 3.
By the way, ladies love bad-boys. Especially ones that listen to their marriage problems. ;-)
That's who my wife fell for. A romantic, bad-boy, and rogue. He provided a "safe" space for her to share her problems. Then he took the liberty of f*cking her.
That rogue was my best friend.
Maybe my tattoo should be a scull and crossbones? A medieval torture instrument? How about an image of a philanderer getting impaled by a hot poker?
