OK Rob, let ME play a bit of devil's advocate this time - read this and see what you think:
you have cranked up the GAL and talked of yourself a lot to W. When do you get to relax? Is this waht you want? W likes you "better" if you GAL more - is she going to hold a bomb over your head forever? Are you being you? Are you enjoying yourself? Do you agree with W? Or are you just changing yourself to please her?
What do you think?
Jen, thank you for playing devil's advocate. We all need to be willing to swing a loving 2x4 around here when it's called for.
To answer your questions, though, I think the important thing is that I like me better when I GAL more. I am enjoying myself, and in many ways (not all) I agree with W. The New Rob is a much funner and more interesting person than The Old Robin.
So, yes, it's good to be shaken out of the comfort zone sometimes. I would rather it was done in a different fashion, of course!
SD, W is from Springfield, MO. We do go through St. Louis on the way there and back, though!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
