Oh NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I am a Sagittarian!!! Really - m b'day is Dec 12th ... oops!!
O-kay .... I have some more things to say ...
"I can't help how I feel" you can - can you control your thoughts? Generally, your thoughts control your feelings, and you can control your thoughts, ergo to some extent you can control your feelings. Takes mastering though. I have something for you, will post in next post.
OK - self esteem - low in R's, high out of them. It does seem odd ... one for you to think about I'd say. Might be some interesting answers there?
Also, I know I've suggested this before but I'll say it again. It might help you to get some individual C. I wouldn't suggest Relate, I don't think they are that great to be honest. But you can do 2 things: 1. go and see your GP or pref a practice nurse. The latter at my surgery are WONDERFUL people, one helped me a bit through the M crisis, a new one is helping me with my fat tummy and stopping smoking. 2. or, look up a concellor on bacp.co.uk.
please think about doing this, it might just be helpful.
OK .. off to find something to help, bear with me
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.