My H also said that it is not me im'e perfect he thinks it MLC,but I do remember him saying he thought we didn't have any thing in common any more( what the HE;; he pushed me out)! That was right after he said he wasn't happy. I had also gained quite a bit of weight from not being able to do any thing before I had back surgery and it was in for a long time. I did and still am losing :)(stress helped that along for a while) But over the last summer H piped up out of nowhere after I had lost 50 ppounds and said that he wanted to see me lose the rest of the weight that I wanted to. Now what does that say to you as a male. H always said that he didn't care about me being heavy that I still looked good.WIth OW at work flirting with him I must have started looking pretty bad.
Doing good on the weight thing and I think if I were to keep going out he might get jealous.
ALthough my kids are adults and do not live home I have done the dinner and candle light and yopu know the rest and he seemed pretty perseptive to it, But that was after the bomb and I was dbing my but off 180 you know after 30 years, and becoming a mystery to him.
All I can say is I have done the right things I think so far in Dbing it is working and you really do have to not do anything that even begin to be pursuing behavoiur.MY councelor said she has never seen anyone that distances push there W/H away but pursuing almost always does and I listened to her. She is a DB fan and very solution oriented.
Does Om's wife have a clue to this?
I'll look for your E-mamil address.
What is abalone?
Chilled i hope with lime
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
