Wow! Pretty powerful words there. I tripped over myself avoiding saying that to my stbx even after a year of exclusively dating her. I was afraid to say it even if I felt it. She was saying it all the time and I just nodded my head or would change the subject for the longest time until I finally said "I love you to" in return.
She must really like you.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
"Keep driving and as I'm walking into my house, out goes OM. At least I got to wake him up in the middle of the night! HA! "
Now I know you are really into the detaching thing because you were able to not kill him and you didn't rant about it. I am very happy you were able to deal with this in a positive manner, you rock and I wanna be you. HS just wants to stick his thing in you.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08
Hey Tom...don't take that the wrong way buddy. She said it in a joking manner. I don't even remember what I said but whatever it was she was simply impressed by my prespective on it...hence the comment. Not a big deal. Just means she appreciates my view point and the type of person I am. Which in itself is a wonderful feeling.
Thanks Fender! I'm good buddy. She's going to do whatever it is she is going to do. I can't control that or change it...she'll just have to live with her own decisions. Not my problem anymore. I wish her the best and I would love to see her making better choices in her life...but hey...out of my hands.
Hey Tom...don't take that the wrong way buddy. She said it in a joking manner. I don't even remember what I said but whatever it was she was simply impressed by my prespective on it...hence the comment. Not a big deal. Just means she appreciates my view point and the type of person I am. Which in itself is a wonderful feeling.
OIC... Still it sounds as though she digs you! Yes, that's a good feeling when a OW can appreciate you for you. You finally start to realize that despite stbx's actions and words, there are still some redeeming qualities about yourself. Of course, I met you and already knew that, but it's nice to hear it from the opposite sex.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
I think that it is important to be VERY open-minded on that subject. After all, if the lady's the whole enchilada, very chesty, but also quite hairily chested--in places--would you be so unkind as to turn her down?
