He even said the dreaded "its not you its me" sentence before he left for work. Mmm seem to remember hearing that EVERY time I've ever been dumped.
When you say every time you've been dumped do you mean in past R's? If so, what do all those R's have in common?
Maybe it is you and not him .... this sounds harsh, but you're coming over as needy and clingy and it's not attractive. I know you do realise this, but it's getting your brain to "get" it, for it to sink in. Please read Men are from Mars ... see if any of it fits with you. if you've already read it, read it again.
Yes I have said your H needs to step up to the mark but I have also said he isn't going to right now. he does not have the strength to right now.
ENOUGH! on beating you up - you seem to do a very good job of beating yourself up a lot. How is YOUR self esteem? Please think about this one....
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
