Thank goodness you're on here tonight I need to talk so much.
I can see how your H's job could have developed during the split as people do tend to concentrate on work and spend a lot of time there when they have nothing else.
My new thread is called "bombs keep dropping not meant to be" in the piecing forum. I'm really not good at the minute - found a letter from the W who H was texting during the split so had a rough time and gave H a rough time over it and now he's kindly delivered another mini bomb this weekend. IP