This is a plain and simple "What are WE going to do for the Fourth" conversations. Notice the we. She's still acting like you are married.
This is going on in millions of households today. ;-)
Oh, and by the way. Every interaction is not a milestone in your upcoming reconciliation or impending divorce.
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She has asked me several times what I am doing tomorrow night, and I keep telling her I don't know, because I don't. I finally said we could go watch Fireworks as a family and then S6 could come home with me.
Question is a statement. What are you doing? = I want to do something with you on the Fourth. I'm bored and lonely living in an apartment all by myself.
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Then she said that she is sure that some friends of ours would be asking me over for a BBQ. She said that if they asked her, she wouldn't go. I asked why and she said because she is sure that the H of this couple isn't her friend anymore. I told her that wasn't true. She insisted that it was.
She was circling around this issue. She's REALLY saying, "I know you'll be invited to a BBQ. I probably won't be invited, but if I am, I won't go because someone doesn't like me anymore. Boo-hoo, poor me. No one likes me anymore. So..will you PLEASE, PLEASE, RESCUE me from being alone on July 4th?"
Wow for woman who has moved out of the house, she sure wants to invite herself (in a passive/aggressive way) to all the fun you are experiencing.
She's confused. And she's liking the new you. These interactions are a hell of lot better than when this started.
