Dave, Ditto here. You know what happened to me, but just a reminder, W had a job 1200 miles away and was going to take the kids with her. I agreed to everything and was setting up a sep. agreement. 24 hours before she had to officially accept the job, she backed down. 2 weeks later and she has not done anything else in any direction, but I think the guilt over the kids got to her.
Even if she leaves, she is not yet "gone".
Stay strong, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread