New to this.....feeling down

[~Sol]

I only said if she wants to be back she will need to work on her issues in IC and also with me in MC.

And I also want to know what happened between us that lead to her having an affair......is it her depression? Insecurity? Trauma from being abused as a young girl? She is not in love with me at all anymore? She is definitely not happy nor is she getting the help she needs. She's running - that's all she knows right now. She's also threatens suicide when she gets in an angry fit....etc....

You two need counseling to figure out why she had the A.

That is what I am trying to get at with her.....IF she wants this to work. But I am at a point where I can let her go if need be. I can't wait around forever.