I get what you are trying to say and im'e not upset with you.
I do try to look at my sitch from all angels as I know my H had to have a reason to feel so bad that he had to go outside our M and have an EA with OW and be so unhappy MLC or not. It still does not excuse what he did though and he needs to deal with that himself with or without me.
Deer sausage if made right is very good.
What about the Coronas?
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez