I think actions speak louder than words. If he is around you, and you are consistant in your behavior, that this is a loving home, you are kind, not provoking an argument, kind words, then he will know.
I have heard of people (myself included) who, at times, let their H's know that the door is always open.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
