Love, what is it, is it real, does it matter?

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TL,
These are the kind of posts that really make you a blessing here. Yes, and YES, don't do it for her, because of her, to get a reaction from her.

If you want to wear the ring, wear it. If not don't. If she feels pressured by the action, that's her issue, not yours. If you feel bad because she doesn't wear hers, that's your issue, not hers. Deal with it.

this is worth repeating

This all feels so complicated, I know, but you've got to get to a place where it's simple, where you're doing things because you want to, and that's all. Just detach and do, bro, detach and do because you want to and it's the right thing...not to cause some desired result.