I don't think that is an accurate understanding of what it is people have been telling you.
Corri
well...you did tell me that if I wasn't willing to walk, then I don't have an actual "boundary" (IWNLIASM)...just a "preference", and that without such boundaries, sitches such as ours (ssm-sufferers in general) will not improve. ergo...
I don't see how he's that far off. OR.... I don't get it, either.
