I was not saying that us guys choose badly. What I am trying to grasp is how a relationship with a women is completely ILLOGICAL. Apparently, women want men that will DUMP them! If I show my desire for my wife and also vow to keep my marriages vows, this will cause her to LOSE desire for me. But if I come out and say that I will have a great love life and I will dump your sorry #ss if you can not deliver on this, then somehow this is supposed to make her really HOT for me.
This is really tough to handle, being NICE in marriage is NOT a good thing. Women supposedly want men that will dump them as soon as they step out of line. So making a marriage vow is a BAD thing.
This really is hard to grasp when your religion tells you one thing, but the reality is that us guys must be willing to DROP our wives as soon as they turn fridgid. Makes my head spin.
