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I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking about the every other weekend visits for D3 like you suggested and it does make sense for us personally, but I just wonder if it would be hard on her. We can definitely try it out and the paperwork, states that we can always amend things at anytime. Can we start this after her 4th birthday???

I also wanted to mention eating habits for D3. She has gained 5 pounds in the last two months!!! That is a lot for a three year old! So I think that we need to help her make better choices as far as her eating habits. I always keep the low calorie snacks at home and I hope you can try to do the same. Also for meals as far as fast food, try not to let her have as much candy or ice cream, okay? I am trying to do the same and it is so hot, but when it cools off we will be taking walks to the park and of course swimming is great exercise for her. I just want her to be healthy!! Her teeth too…don’t forget to brush her teeth!

Here are a few things that are good to keep that she will eat:

Bananas
Apples
Grapes
Strawberries
100 calories Oreos / choco chip bites
low pat choco pudding
pb & j
wheat bread
low fat strawberry yogurt

I also want to apologize for saying I hate you. I don’t. I don’t want to be buddies or anything yet, I do have a lot of hard feelings and pain that I am trying to deal with, but we are both adults and I know we are capable of being considerate with each other. We will be able to handle things between the two of us without having to bring attorneys into it or without fighting. I do hope that you are able to make the changes that you desire and I wish the best for you.

Also, I would like to have D3 from noon Saturday, Aug. 4th till the next day. I’m going to have a party for her but I may turn it into a girl’s sleepover that night. So would you mind celebrating her birthday with her the weekend before since her birthday falls during the week???

Thanks,
Wife


I don’t know what to make of this letter or how to respond. I am relieved knowing that she is willing to negotiate. I feel like crying and leaving work! I need to BELIEVE

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