My instincts tell me that what Mopo/Nomo suggests is the way to go. It would have to be a well thought out & sincere approach, coupled w/a strong/confident man attitude. Tricky though, b/c it goes against DB somewhat. I think I would weigh it out & be prepared that it might not be greeted the way you wish for.
It is a "What have you got to lose" way to go though.
Wait for some more feed back here 1st & then decide.
