I'll chime in with the crowd here. No need to continue going to W's IC sessions with her. Because that is all it is.
I think I posted here that when we started MC with my W's IC, the counselor had one session alone with me, to get my side of the story before continuing. Even so, she was clearly on my W's side. And I was willing to continue despite W saying it was "pointless." BUT all of this was 6 months before she filed, not after.
That said, if W agrees to the marriage retreat, it might be worth sticking with the counseling until that is done. Good luck with that--I know its a long shot and don't get your hopes up, but you never know.
