I agree Em. I would be very open with her. I would talk with her and simply state that you wish to proceed with MC but you feel that the counselor does not seem to be 'impartial'. The decision for D should be between the two of you....and..the IC can make recommendations on how to improve the R...but the objective should be to help the 2 of you, not favor one spouse over the other.

Em...have you heard of or seen this?

Retrouvaille

Would your W agree to this? Would this be a way to offer her another strategy? If it looks interesting, I highly recommend that you call them. I tried with my W who wanted no part of it..but..she called the woman involved...at least something.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;