Thank you saffie. Enjoy the ride. My parents have horses, I grew up riding and really miss it sometimes.
Interesting perspectives Sara and TL.
Unfortunately, some time ago my W took her ring off, about a week later I took mine off.
My conflict now is, love is something I do regardless of what she does. I took it off because she did. Do I put it back on now as an ACT of love? If so, will that be seen as pressure or imposing what I want on her when she doesn't want that right now?