If u don't think that is the reason he called (so urgently about the refinance) then what do u think it is? Or it could be just another form of exercising his control?
Maybe I'm missing something, but it seems pretty clear to me he is calling because you texted him "reminding him" you were to have the girls for the fireworks (after he apparently told them they would be with him for fireowrks) and telling him he could forget the overnight stay you both had agreed about. And after leaving that message, which it seems to me would likely upset him, you went drak and avoided several phone calls, turned off IM at work, and didn't return his voicemails.
What am I missing chicki? Don't you think that is why he is calling and why he "threatened" you?
Do you plan to call him back, or just let this fester/simmer/get worse from now to the 4th?
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