Yes there has been physical abuse from H in the past & most recent (i really didn't take it too seriuosly though). The most recent was when he assumed I was seeing someone else & choked me in his rage. I do beleive he can get out of control when his temper takes over. I was not up to any drama esp. w/ the kids around. Hence another reason to not being at home. Another reason to not call him back at his work b/c he loves to put on a"show" infront of his coworkers. H does it all the time to make me look bad esp. since they only hear one side of the convo. & he makes it sound like I am the crazy one.