Scott - What is the goal of the D counseling? To help you communicate like adults throught the D?? If it's not helpful to you and you feel like you are hurt by it, don't go. I guess the way I see it - it's your w's c's job to believe what her client tells her. If she is not a Christian Counselor then she has no basis for saying anything faith-based.. just a bunch of words to support her client's decision. That's what my H is currently going through with his C... She is "helping" him go through and thoughts/feelings in order to make a "wise" decision. It's what they're paying them for I guess..
