Looks like you achieved one of your goals. You moved out. Moving forward.
Your first H and second H appear to be totally opposite. Do you think there is some middle ground between the two that you need? Nothing got by your first H. Your second just let everything slide. Which is it that you want? I know this is going to seem like an off the wall question, but if your first H hadn't lied, cheated and manipulated, would you still be married to him. Or would there have been something else that made you unhappy?
Wouldn't it be other people having a problem with your bluntness? Unless it's unsolicited, bluntness is just honesty. How is being blunt begging? Isn't it just asking for what you want and need?
