I somewhat of a dilemma: last week H said he wants the girls overnite tomorrow until all day the fourth but will bring them back in time b/v h knows I want to take them to the fireworks. Well on Sunday he was talking to them on the phone & said he was having a party at OW new apt & he was taking them to see the fireworks. Hmmm I get the impression he will not bring htem back in time for my plans. So I texted him later that day (ne respnse back) to remind him I was taking them to see fireworks & to forget taking them obernite if he was going against my plans that we wold be out of town. Yesturday I decided to go dark and shut my cell down, did not log on my work IM (this is how H & talk during the day) & I screend my work phone. In the morning I received an outside call (while @ work)and I did not answer it and then one second afterwards my cell phone rings(ringer off but I watched to see if was H) & indeed it was H calling from his work. H texted me to call back. Later in the afternoon H left me a VM on cell that he needed my help on soemthing & if I did not call back I will see what will happen to me!!Threatening?? By then I had turned the phone off so I did not turn it back on until I got home after work. No, I did not call him. H NEVER answers his cell when I call & have the girls!! That is not y I did not call,but to show him he can not threaten all the time & will just jump to his beck and call! I am assuming he was calling b/c last week he was thinking about refinancing the house so he can "buy" me out of my deed and he can catch up on his bill,& mortagage. This is his new plan to get me to leave the house. Says he will give me enough money to start over so I can get my own place. I thought about it & no I don't think it's a good plan. Last nite I made sure the girls and I were out of the house incase h came by. I will do the same tonite & I know this wil piss him off,but oh well......
