I think Still is spot on here... might your W be agreeable to C to help with coparenting issues with your D? If so, then it might have other positive potential as well.
And as far as this: "we had a big long hug and both cryed but its over", is that what YOU think and want? If so, then okay. But your W still just seems so unsure, so all over the place about this...is it possible that "Friday" may not even arrive at the end of this week? I'm not suggesting you do anything differently than what you've been doing; just couldn't tell from your post what you want the next step to be...
But you are doing a great job at leaving that cage door open...
