This might confirm my thoughts on the sexual polarity issue.
Let me take a crazy stab at this again:
Sounds like you need to get your career together. It's integral to our manhood.
So rather than fret about your marriage: get your sh*t together.
Several months ago I called a successful divorce buster named Frank_D. He asked me lots of questions and listened to me talk for 30 minutes. I'll remember to this day what he said to me:
1. Your wife is bored with you. I'm already bored by speaking with you. You've lost your passion for life. 2. You are floundering in your career. 3. Get your sh*t together. No excuses. As an experiment, go DO something you didn't think you could do to prove to yourself you have what it takes. 4. Become a leader. 5. He asked me, "Do you, at the age of 70 want to be broke, alone and bitter?" If not then DO something about it.
Husband. You can't change your wife. You can't really save your marriage. You CAN become the kind of person that you dream of being. Then, all kinds of people will be attracted to you -- maybe even your wife.
Let me confess: my weakness, fear and indecision are nauseating to my wife.
I offer this to you humbly. I struggle with this to.
