Interesting Saffie, I felt in my M that my W loved her hobbies, kids, studies, many things more than me. I think I was not offering unconditional love, and I was being needy and demanding. Now, I'm trying to be like your horse.
I too got involved with someone else, and it helped me realize how much my W and my family meant to me. I ended my A, before my W knew about it (I've confessed since her bomb). Unfortunately for me, my W and her 'first love' (Sara, my W felt like you, that she married the wrong boyfriend, and this OM was her real true love. I'm still shaken by my W's whole EA/PA, WAS, but she came back. So that says something) had an A and it didn't, yet?, help her realize how much she loves me.
Is the lesson that we should be like pets? I think at least as far as unconditional love is concerned, yes.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
