Hey! I wasn't done with that Post! so here's more. So Saffie, yes, men are probably more visual than women (not that women aren't visual too), but it's not the most important thing.
Tyler, I think I know what you mean. It's part of the detaching. You are probably not "judging" or even really critisising her body, but it's a way of detaching. And maybe it's partly because they have detached from us. If my W looked at me and said ILY, I'd thing she was the most beautiful, sexy, woman in the world. Knowing she can't or won't say that and that she doesn't feel that for me, she definately has become less attractive to me.
What do you think? Plausable?
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
