I can relate to that. My H thought that I loved my horse more than him - which at the time I probably did. The horse offered me unconditional love, (aslong as her tea appeared on time), the H just gave me a headache!!
It wasn't until he got involved with someone else that I realised just how much he really meant to me and at that point offered to have horse made into burgers. Luckily he didin't take me up on that one as it would have been a close call but it did seem to help turn some sort of corner.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength