Actually, no, he would never resent the kids. The youngest is about to be adopted by him. HE is her "daddy". HE has raised her for 4 years as his. The oldest and he have a very close relationship. It is most definatly not that. And no, he wasn't married before, and was not in a long term relationship when we met. He was single and had been for awhile. We dated for two years before getting married. As far as having feeling for someone else, as I said before...a person may never really know this unless the Spouse tells them. He says he does not, that he loves me, so...I don't know.
