Its late here down under but time to put some thoughts and news down. W told me tonight she will move out on Friday. There started an emotional evening together and slowly W opened up and I kept validating what she was saying. She told me she thought we would be forever but I took her for granted , I said yes I see that , I am sorry. She is hurting bad and not at all happy with herself. We agreed to be friends and to work through things together, I talked about our House and W said she doesnt want to think about that. We have agreed as long as neither of us gets nasty we do not need attorneys as we both know they will cost us both. So there it is , we had a big long hug and both cryed but its over. No talk of OM at all . The boys will stay with me and we will look after D 50/50 but be guided by whats best for D , no tug of war. I gusee the best thing is we still trust each other.