You are going through the wringer right now, just what you need to be dealing with right now! It is great that H is with you, its nice to know they trust you!!! Its amazing how family's can be so screwed up isn't it! I don't have alot of advice for the situation, but you are doing a good job, and just remain calm and hold your head high! How is everything going otherwise?
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!