i was just thinking. one thing my wife said after we went out the other night is she didn't know if she felt a connection when we had dinner. my thought is of course you didn't. we have been sep. for 7 months, have not seen eachother in two months, and have not spoken in 6 weeks, our first time together (altough that afternoon when there was no time to think was very natural)is not going to feel perfect. my brother in law said to her it is not going to fit like a well worn glove, you have to break it in again. i don't know what her expectations were but the more emotional and tougher your break up is the harder it is going to be to be relaxed right away..
i have not talked to her since sat. figured i would give her a couple of days to digest everything. i am learning when they put there wall up your wasting your time.
