This thread is called introspection, growth, and acceptance, so you are fitting in well.
oh.. forgot to mention. funny that i had this whole dating conversation today on here since at v-ball tonight, the wife of one of the guys i play with asked me if i'm ready to date. i got the distinct notion that she has someone in mind that she wants to set me up with. i didn't give her the clearest of answers, and like the sweetheart she is she kind of just took it as confusion to be left at confusion, for now.
we're setting up our next team (current league ends next week) and one of our guys is taking a break until fall so we need another player. i think we're going to ask a cute guy who has subbed with us a few times. woot woot. for all i know he's married but i'm all for getting to know new people and the circle of people that then enables you to meet.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius