This thread is called introspection, growth, and acceptance, so you are fitting in well.

oh.. forgot to mention. funny that i had this whole dating conversation today on here since at v-ball tonight, the wife of one of the guys i play with asked me if i'm ready to date. i got the distinct notion that she has someone in mind that she wants to set me up with. i didn't give her the clearest of answers, and like the sweetheart she is she kind of just took it as confusion to be left at confusion, for now. \:\)

we're setting up our next team (current league ends next week) and one of our guys is taking a break until fall so we need another player. i think we're going to ask a cute guy who has subbed with us a few times. woot woot. for all i know he's married but i'm all for getting to know new people and the circle of people that then enables you to meet.


Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius

Me: 32 XH: 33
M: 8 years
Affair discovered: 06/2006
rediscovered: 11/2006
Separation: 04/2007
Divorced: 10/09/07