Just a warning, if you give your WAS a letter like this, don't expect anything in return. If you are doing it because you want to say these things to her because that is the way you feel and you want her to know it, then maybe it is ok to give it to her but with absolutely no expectations. Do not give it to her with the hopes that it will change her mind. I have given my H quite a few letters over the last 7 months, and I have not got one in return. It has been very painful, but I needed to say those things to my H for myself. I needed him to know how I felt. The best letter that I wrote was the last one that I gave him. It was a goodbye letter (it is posted in my 1st thread somewhere) and it made no mention of OW. I gave it to him a few weeks ago and nothing has changed in my sitch since then, but I needed to do it for closure.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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