Hi, I am one of these woman that have a LD husband and I have a much hire D level. I would not say HD but just average. I have been married before and "think" I know what the average on sex is per year. My husband now does not think that sex is important to a marriage. He has made a statement to me that marrriage without sex will not work; but has not stated what "without" means. We are lucky to have sex once a week. To me this was a big shock. In the beginning of our relationship he was not really big into sex, but was happy to try and please me. Now I feel it has come to just the motions of sex. He has never shown passion, intercouse is just that. He does not place any effort in to having sex, he just lays there and I do the work. I have so often wondered what would happen if I just took care of myself, got off and went to sleep... without taking care of him. He and I have discussed this in lenght. Most times it comes out as an arguement that never ends. Just once I was able to get him to talk about his lack of enthuesiasm in this area. His explanationa was this: "I was in the military for so long that sex went to the bottom of my priority list. I thought about it mostly when I was drunk and thats it. There is to much on my mide to worry about having sex" He is not a masturbator nor is he cheating. This I am surof.
