OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............Pt2

[andyv]

I don't discuss anything I do with my W. She probably has an idea when she sees me all dolled up and staying out till late, but she has not asked and I have not disclosed.

The change in her mood has co-incided with me going out more, and dating. Also, my confidence and self worth are higher than it has been even before the bomb. I look back now and realise the mistakes I have made, but my W sure did make alot also.

You just have to be careful if you do decide to date, and be honest with the person you are with. The women that I have spent time with know my sitch. It is just really nice to be able to go out and have fun with someone other than your mates. And do the things that you enjoyed (as a couple), like dinners, movies, coffee etc, and great conversation.

But you really do have to be careful. If you really want to get your R back with your W, the last thing you want is to connect emotionally to someone else, and possibly having that progress into something serious.

Funny thing happend this morning. My W had her best friend sleep over last night (BF is one of my biggest supporters), and they were up all night talking in her bedroom. This morning W came into my bedroom early to ask whether I wanted her to drop DD off at vacation care, or whether I could do it. I told her that I didn't mind, and she said "Thanks Darling".

Man, I take everything she says and does with a pinch of salt, but it was nice to hear those words, when you haven't heard them for over 6 months.