Haven't heard from her since friday when she arrived to IL's house. My son has called though every night. I think our spouses care, just confused, that is what I keep telling myself. She is going to have to face alot of those issues on her own. You can admit you were wrong when asked. Just give it the time and space she wants even though you don't like it all the time. I try not to give myself a time line, I will just know when it is time when it is time. I figure if I do give myself a time that is pre-set, I am just dooming myself for failure with my family. Let her think about what the C says, hopefully she will face those issues sooner than later.
Good Luck
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07