I thought about that , may try it today. No progress from W yet has one foot out the door but seems as though she either not prepared to leap or she is arranging her ducks and is going to blindside me . Time will tell , I better get my butt off to a Lawyer just in case.
I went out last night, asked for her keys so I could shift her car and went o friends for a couple of hours. Got home later and said hello , sat down and started to watch TV. I can see W and her body language is all tense. After about 20 minutes of silence she couldnt help herself and asked " so where did you go ?" I told her " Just to Mikes to pick up a book I loaned him but he was not home so stopped in at J's for a coffee"
I went out last Monday nite as well but she never asked where , I guess it just got the better of her. I couldnt not tell her though.
W went to bed with barely a goodnight murmoured. This morning she came to me to give me a kiss goodbye again.
I dont know where things are headed but I have learned that it is important not to react to stuff she does or her moods. Just stay on course.