New to this.....feeling down

[~Sol]

I just learned that my daughter was not at my W's place the whole time. She was at a friends of hers......so I wonder why my W wanted to be alone at her place-----like it's any of my business now, right? But I am still married, and I will NOT cheat on her while still being married to my W. She, on the other hand, knows better than to try and cheat again.....unless she wants to lose custody in a court battle.

My W said that she is picking up our daughter from the friend's house and dropping her off at my house. She still has the key to get in, but I am changing the locks now. My W cannot come and go as she pleases while she is living in her own place, and she's just trying to be in control of the sitch. I am paying all the bills on my own now, just like she's paying her new rent.

Tomorrow we will go through this scenario again. But she will soon discover that she cannot get in like she wants to. And I talked to SS and told him he CANNOT give my W his copy of the house key so she can go and get a copy herself. If I learn about that, SS house privileges are going away and he too will need to wait on me to be let in.