You may get to a point where you don't want to live as "roommates" anymore and you may need to sit down and talk to her. I am all for the DB'ing stuff, but if nothing seems to be working and you don't seem to be making any progress, you may need to finally just talk to her. BUT maybe the DB'ing IS WORKING and that's why you are making progress, i.e., going on a vacation, etc. and you're just not looking at it the right way.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10