Bombs keep dropping - not meant to be??

[Jen_Jam]

Right girl!!! Are you a mouse or are you one darn amazing woman!?!

I had 2 bombs - you CAN get through this, but it's going to be a case of not saving your M but completely demolishing it and building up a brand new and better one.

Sit down with the DR book and go back on your goals - I think it's chapter 6 where there's the bit "I'm Discouraged". Read and re-read DR, it can do only good.

Yes your H is going to have to step up to the plate but it doesn't look like he's got the strength to, so you are going to have to have the strength for both of you. Sounds draining, doesn't it? Time to go and GAL GAL GAL girl!!! Make your H see this strong, intelligent, wonderful woman that we can all see and he will be attracted.

and if you say you can't GAL I will scream!! no - better, I will get in my car and drive up north and make you GAL your butt off!!!

You can do this - it's not the end, it's just another bump on this rollercoaster. One of my friends said THE most perfect thing for me when I got my second bomb:

"Marriage is like a maze. If you go down one route and it's the wrong one you turn about and pick a different direction"