Good Dana...it sounds like you realize that you will do whatever you want to do whenever you are ready to do it. I think you continue on your path and when you do find someone that you are interested in...well you'll know then if you are ready or not to date. Same holds true with filing...when you know, you'll know. However I will say that I think he owes it to you to file and that if you ask him to...he should be man enough to do it. If he is not, well all the more reason not to feel guilty with doing that for yourself. ((((DANA)))))