"I think it is okay for you to be interested in dating but if you do feel that uncomfortable with the idea of being legally married and doing so, then you are going to have to make the choice to end it."
Yep.. that is the kicker part. So, no need to make a decision today. If I meet Mr. Right and need to decide, I'll let you all know.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
HS: I thought of something catty to say to your package comment but I'm keeping it to myself. he he
I'm in a fiesty mood. I just had THE BEST time at volleyball. We played in the rain and I am dirty and muddy and disgusting right now but I had so much fun. We only had 3 players instead of 4 tonight but we played the best we have all season and had the most fun we've had all season. We won the first game, lost the second by 5, and the last one was tied at the time the game had to end and we lost the last point with a hit just outside the line. Totally bummer we didn't win but considering we came from losing by like 7 in that last game, it was pretty fun. I feel GREAT!
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
This thread is called introspection, growth, and acceptance, so you are fitting in well.
oh.. forgot to mention. funny that i had this whole dating conversation today on here since at v-ball tonight, the wife of one of the guys i play with asked me if i'm ready to date. i got the distinct notion that she has someone in mind that she wants to set me up with. i didn't give her the clearest of answers, and like the sweetheart she is she kind of just took it as confusion to be left at confusion, for now.
we're setting up our next team (current league ends next week) and one of our guys is taking a break until fall so we need another player. i think we're going to ask a cute guy who has subbed with us a few times. woot woot. for all i know he's married but i'm all for getting to know new people and the circle of people that then enables you to meet.
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
I'm in a fiesty mood. I just had THE BEST time at volleyball. We played in the rain and I am dirty and muddy and disgusting right now but I had so much fun.
What, no PICTURES?
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!
If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you But make allowance for their doubting too, If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream--and not make dreams your master, If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same; If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings And never breath a word about your loss; If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you; If all men count with you, but none too much, If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!
--Rudyard Kipling
Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking. -Marcus Aurelius
